ABCD’s on How to Find Your Own Happiness

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Happiness is one of the best feelings ever known to mankind.

Have you been in love?

Have you traveled to places and finally checked one on your bucket list?

Or have you achieved the goal that you have been working on for months now?

You definitely felt some happiness in you, right?

What does it really feel like to be happy and how to find your own happiness?

Everyone wants to be completely happy.

The happiness that our hearts desire more than anything else. The smile on your face can’t be tarnished by anything. We don’t just want happiness, we need it.

No one in this world wants to be a lonely sad wolf.

We can be happy in many ways, may it be through other people or through the things we do for ourselves.

Many times in our lives we question ourselves, how to find our own happiness?

It is because we all want to live a happy life.

For starters, we start with the ABCD’s on how to find your own happiness.


Appreciate all that you have accomplished in your life no matter how small or how big it is.

The feeling of accomplishment will trigger the fire of happiness in you.

How about making a list of all the things that you had achieved in your life and all the things that you still want to achieve?

This way, you will have a goal in life.

Challenge yourself to complete your goals and in every accomplishment on your list, treat yourself a little.

Maybe you have done a really great job at work and got promoted, go and spend some of your vacation leave with your family and go to places you have never been before and appreciate all the good stuff that life has to offer.

The people around you will definitely see your changes emotionally and physically.

There are people who believe that those who are inspired looks a lot younger.

Appreciate not only yourself but also the people around you.

Be Grateful and You will be Happier.

Life is better if everyone is happy in their own ways.

Always share happiness because it easily spreads like wildfire.

A simple deed can make people happy.

“Dwell on the Beauty of Life. Watch the Stars, and See Yourself Running with Them.”
― Marcus Aurelius


There are two kinds of people – Positive minded people and negative minded people.

Be sure to be with the positive minded ones who keep on encouraging you to do the things that are not only right but will also make you feel complete.

You may encounter bad things along the way, but they will be there to support you and keep on you pushing forward.

Remember that these bad things or mistakes in life are the ones that will make you a better person.

Learn from these mistakes and correct them once it presents itself again.

The negative-minded people will probably give you all the negative things that may happen before they even happen.

Ask these people how to find your own happiness and they will just tell you that it is just in your imagination and that we only live to survive and not be happy.

You Become Like the 5 People You Spend the Most Time With. Choose Carefully.


Face the mirror in the morning and keep telling yourself “You are awesome! You are one of a kind! You are the best thing the world has!”

Loving ourselves and having High self-esteem can help us to be happier.

Keep on boosting your confidence and put yourself on top and be the best that you can be.

This time, don’t think of what other people say to you. You are the author of your own happiness.

Keep in touch with your family and friends even on your busy days.

Start with Laughing once in a while and make it a habit.

They are the constant reminders that life can be so much fun.

They will help you go through the tough times.

A simple encouragement from them is a great motivation to keep on moving forward.

They will be the one to help you to become the best version of yourself every single day.

Love yourself first, because that’s who you’ll be spending the rest of your life with.


Work does not need to be boring.

Do what makes you happy.

Most part of your life you will be working to pay your bills and to survive from the daily grind.

Why not pay for all those bills and buy all you need and want from the money you earned from doing the things you love?

There is no better feeling at work than doing the things you love and not doing it for a paycheck’s sake.

Create a great day! Grab a pen and a paper and plan your day.

How to start a day in a good and happy way

It does not need to be perfect but something that is enjoyable.

To make it happen, you need to believe in it 101% just as how you have believed in yourself.

Believe that this day will be a greater day than yesterday.

You don’t need to be perfect. You only need to be original.

Do not compare yourself from other people as this may only result in insecurities.

Always look at the brighter side and be positive.

Every day, look in the mirror and ask yourself the same question, “How to find your own happiness”.

Only you can find the answer to that question. You can only find guides and tips on how to find your happiness on the internet.

You are the architect of your own life.

— Henry Thomas Hamblin

You may search all you can, but none of these will bring you happiness.

One day, you will come across people who will ask you on how you found your own happiness and you will be the one to tell them the things you have been through to find the happiness you have always been searching for.

Finding your own happiness is beyond A, B, C, and D.

There are many ways on how to find your own happiness.

Remember that you have the power to write the kind of life you want to have and always believe in it 101%.

There is no word in the dictionary that can express the happiness you will feel once you have reached the pinnacle of your goal.

You will just know it and everything you do will be what you have planned things to be.

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